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	<description>Working together as a team of three --  by Jill Edelman, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., Specialist in Couples Therapy</description>
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		<title>Comment on Who Defines Disability? The DSM V and Autism: 1-23-12 by Cancer Treatment Center Of America In Illinois &#124; Healing of Cancer</title>
		<link>http://thecouplestoolkit.com/2012/01/23/who-defines-disability-the-dsm-v-and-autism-1-23-12/#comment-1041</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cancer Treatment Center Of America In Illinois &#124; Healing of Cancer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Mental Health DepressionWho Defines Disability [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on Recognizing The Co-Narcissism In Your Coupledom by jilledelmanlcsw</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 22:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Charlotte, so glad that the post was useful and impressed that you and your husband are facing this issue head on. Very difficult but if there is a shift that is happening from his therapy, that bodes well for both of you. Thank you too for the link. I will take a look. Jill]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charlotte, so glad that the post was useful and impressed that you and your husband are facing this issue head on. Very difficult but if there is a shift that is happening from his therapy, that bodes well for both of you. Thank you too for the link. I will take a look. Jill</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret To A Happy Marriage: Self-Expansion by Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach &#171; The Couples Tool Kit</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 01:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] you create together in which your relationship resides), think outside of the box, be flexible, try something new and keep a healthy perspective on it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on The Limber Coupledom: Yielding Postures, Flexible Positions by Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach &#171; The Couples Tool Kit</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 01:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] third entity that you create together in which your relationship resides), think outside of the box, be flexible, try something new and keep a healthy perspective on it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on Valentine&#8217;s Day and The Coupledom: Is This a Test? by Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach &#171; The Couples Tool Kit</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 01:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] here. In the post Valentine’s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing I tackled the topic of gift giving. Valentine’s Day and The Coupledom: Is This A Test? provides a perspective on how to prevent the spiral downward that this holiday can trigger for [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] here. In the post Valentine’s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing I tackled the topic of gift giving. Valentine’s Day and The Coupledom: Is This A Test? provides a perspective on how to prevent the spiral downward that this holiday can trigger for [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Valentine&#8217;s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing by Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach &#171; The Couples Tool Kit</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach &#171; The Couples Tool Kit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 01:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] stretching my brain to think what I might add to the topic that would be useful here. In the post Valentine’s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing I tackled the topic of gift giving. Valentine’s Day and The Coupledom: Is This A [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] stretching my brain to think what I might add to the topic that would be useful here. In the post Valentine’s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing I tackled the topic of gift giving. Valentine’s Day and The Coupledom: Is This A [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texting While Sleeping: 1-15-12 by jilledelmanlcsw</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, &quot;we understand.&quot; I found that so comforting, that salve. All of us were in the same boat, no explanations necessary. Thank you for your support. Thank you Nancy.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, &#8220;we understand.&#8221; I found that so comforting, that salve. All of us were in the same boat, no explanations necessary. Thank you for your support. Thank you Nancy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texting While Sleeping: 1-15-12 by Nancy Thomson (Mary's Mom)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nancy Thomson (Mary's Mom)]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am looking forward to your book.  I read your blog and find great comfort and understanding (along with humor).  I think that is why we, as parents, connected so much at Riverview.  We understand.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am looking forward to your book.  I read your blog and find great comfort and understanding (along with humor).  I think that is why we, as parents, connected so much at Riverview.  We understand.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Recognizing The Co-Narcissism In Your Coupledom by Charlotte</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Charlotte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 22:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband has NPD, and the hardest part for me, is dealing with his almost complete lack of empathy. He&#039;s in therapy, and I have noticed a change in him. But you are right, at the heart of narcissism is insecurity. I try to keep that in mind. I&#039;m also finding that the more I read about NPD, the easier it is to handle things. There&#039;s some great advice at http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus-nar. And thanks so much for this post, Paula.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband has NPD, and the hardest part for me, is dealing with his almost complete lack of empathy. He&#8217;s in therapy, and I have noticed a change in him. But you are right, at the heart of narcissism is insecurity. I try to keep that in mind. I&#8217;m also finding that the more I read about NPD, the easier it is to handle things. There&#8217;s some great advice at <a href="http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus-nar" rel="nofollow">http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus-nar</a>. And thanks so much for this post, Paula.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texting While Sleeping: 1-15-12 by jilledelmanlcsw</title>
		<link>http://thecouplestoolkit.com/2012/01/16/texting-while-sleeping-1-15-12/#comment-1030</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jilledelmanlcsw]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 19:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Nancy, Yes, laugh and laugh. Humor is our greatest ally on the front lines of parenting special needs, isn&#039;t it? All parenting for that matter but the challenges of special needs children/adults require that we develop an incredible humor muscle. Thanks so much for sharing this hilarious anecdote. Oh my. I am thinking I should write a book on the humor of parenting special needs. By the way, soon these posts will be published as a book. Will keep you informed. Best to you and to Mary.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Nancy, Yes, laugh and laugh. Humor is our greatest ally on the front lines of parenting special needs, isn&#8217;t it? All parenting for that matter but the challenges of special needs children/adults require that we develop an incredible humor muscle. Thanks so much for sharing this hilarious anecdote. Oh my. I am thinking I should write a book on the humor of parenting special needs. By the way, soon these posts will be published as a book. Will keep you informed. Best to you and to Mary.</p>
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