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Oldies but Goodies: Can You Say No To A Narcissist? Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

Oldies but Goodies: Can You Say No To A Narcissist? Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

By Jill Edelman . 8:30 am

Jill is taking a break from the blog this week. Here is one of her most popular posts from the past year or so. Excerpt: Do You Often Feel Invisible in The Coupledom? Healthy narcissism is a good thing. We need to care enough about ourselves to stay healthy, strive to achieve, pick caring partners, […]

Recognizing The Co-Narcissism In Your Coupledom

Recognizing The Co-Narcissism In Your Coupledom

By Jill Edelman . 8:01 pm

Watch Your Step: Couples relationships incorporate a complex interplay of behaviors and emotions that are products of the unspoken but powerful contract that provides a substructure of the shared life. There can be many substructures that compose the foundation of the attachment, some healthy and sustaining, such as common values and passions, others harmful and […]

Free Holiday Gifts

Free Holiday Gifts

By Jill Edelman . 11:13 am

As the holidays consume our time and attention, I suspect reading blogs will fall down on the “to do” list. But just in case you have a moment now or after the Times Square Ball drops us into 2012, take a peek at the contents page of The Couples Tool Kit. Or dip into the […]

Holiday Toolkit 2011: The Narcissist’s Stocking Stuffer: A Coupledom Alert

Holiday Toolkit 2011: The Narcissist’s Stocking Stuffer: A Coupledom Alert

By Jill Edelman . 3:51 pm

What do you get a narcissist for the holidays? No, this isn’t a bad joke — just another helpful post from The Holiday Toolkit intended to help you survive the most wonderful time of the year. Today’s post from the Holiday Toolkit: Excerpt: How many days to Thanksgiving? To Hanukkah? To Christmas? To Kwanzaa? To […]

The Narcissist’s Stocking Stuffer: A Coupledom Alert

The Narcissist’s Stocking Stuffer: A Coupledom Alert

By Jill Edelman . 2:36 pm

Holidays Coming: How many days to Thanksgiving? To Hanukkah? To Christmas? To Kwanzaa? To New Year’s Eve? Enough to create a big fat Coupledom mess. What are the holidays known for in my profession? Opportunity for families to become combustible, leaving memories scorched with flames. Why? Holidays provide fertile ground for narcissistic orgies rich in […]

The Coupledom Contract: Who Gets Thrown Under The Bus?

The Coupledom Contract: Who Gets Thrown Under The Bus?

By Jill Edelman . 9:33 am

The Costs Of Accommodation: There are many unspoken and even unconscious clauses in most Coupledoms. They may include never confronting your partner with the reality of their tone-deaf singing or limited grace on the dance floor. Perhaps the overcooked spaghetti goes unmentioned, or the gardening attempts that are less than stellar. None of these accommodations […]

Can You Say No To A Narcissist?  Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

Can You Say No To A Narcissist? Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

By Jill Edelman . 3:17 pm

Narcissism: For the purposes of this post I am using a definition of narcissism found on a website called Seximus: “Narcissism, behavior which involve exclusive self-absorption. A degree of narcissism is considered normal, where an individual has a healthy self-regard and realistic aspirations. It is considered pathological behavior when the person tends to harbor an […]

 

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