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Married to Wikipedia: The Evolving Marriage

Married to Wikipedia: The Evolving Marriage

By Jill Edelman . 1:14 pm

The Expert: About a decade ago, I worked with a May-December Coupledom, the wife almost twenty years junior to her hubby, who were at a marital crossroads. The images each had originally held of the other were now anachronistic. The husband seemed trapped in the patriarchal position of most knowledgeable, the decider and the protector. […]

A Parenting Quandary: Respect or Protect?

A Parenting Quandary: Respect or Protect?

By Jill Edelman . 7:35 pm

Well Meaning Parenting: In the trenches of parenting, whatever the child’s age, a primary motivation is to “protect” the child from everything from dental decay to death. The parenting manual, implicit as it is, but part of any species, is to promote the survival of the species, i.e. our offspring. Love as Motivation: In the […]

The Factor of TIME: Underrated and Overlooked

The Factor of TIME: Underrated and Overlooked

By Jill Edelman . 6:57 pm

TIME is a most precious commodity. Yet TIME for the couple to be together is often overlooked and undervalued, each partner rushing to do his or her best at the socially prescribed “role” of parent, employee or community volunteer. In therapy, TIME for the couple is valued, precious, proscribed and imposed. Boundaries are firm and […]

 

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