• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
The Couples Toolkit Logo
  • Home
  • About
  • Services
    • Family Therapy
    • Couples Therapy
    • Uncoupling
    • Individual Therapy
    • Grief and Loss Counseling
    • Children of Divorce, Young and Adult
    • Transitions in The Coupledom
    • Empty Nest Couples Counseling
  • Blog
  • Parenting Adult Special Needs
  • FAQs
  • Contact
  • Show Search
The Couples Toolkit
Hide Search

Blogs

Aiming high to achieve what matters most: Connection; Communication and Mutual Respect

Off To Graduation Weekend: 6-10-11

Off To Graduation Weekend: 6-10-11

By Jill Edelman . 06/10/2011

Suspense: The other mother and I put in our bid for the modern apartment. Alas, someone else made an offer as well. The owner has to decide which offer to take. We won’t find out until later today. I will be on the road by then, and hope to reach our daughter’s school campus by lunchtime. Family will join us later at the motel or at the Brazilian Grill in Hyannis for dinner where we have a reservation for fifteen.

Disappointment: If we don’t get the apartment it will be a disappointment. I don’t want to start worrying that we will never find what the girls need, because that is probably untrue and self-defeating. The weekend will be busy and I am wondering how our daughter will process the highs and lows of this momentous occasion. She is, after all, leaving her home of five years, her friends and her teachers. As we therapists like to remind folks, this is a process and whatever she may feel Sunday, Monday or in three months, will be changing, moving and maturing. However, having an apartment in place would be tremendously useful to focus all of us on the future, not just the losses and gains of the past.

Monday Morning: When we wake up Monday morning, the appointment of the day will include our daughter’s meeting up and lunching with her future apartment mate and staff from Ability Beyond Disability. That will be great. The girls will be together for the first time without the mothers. I will work, and our daughter will embark on the first day of the rest of her life, chapter 1.

Fingers Crossed: We will get the apartment. Back in touch Monday. 

©Jill Edelman, M.S.W., L.C.S.W. 2011

Parenting Adult Special Needs: One Day At A Time, Special Needs, Special Needs Parents

Enjoyed it? Share this article on

About Jill Edelman

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Categories

  • 9/11
  • Addiction
  • Admit Imperfection
  • Adult Children of Divorce
  • Aging
  • Betrayal
  • Blended Families
  • Children
  • Communication
  • Conflict
  • couples therapy
  • Denial
  • Depression
  • Developmental Disorders
  • Differences
  • Divorce
  • emotions
  • Envy
  • Grief
  • Have That Conversation
  • Holiday Pressures
  • Holiday Toolkit
  • Holidays
  • Infidelity
  • Intimacy
  • Jealousy
  • Listening
  • Look and Words
  • Loss
  • Lying
  • Menopause
  • Mental Illness
  • Most Popular
  • Narcissim
  • online dating
  • Pandemic
  • Parenting
  • Parenting Adult Special Needs: One Day At A Time
  • passive-aggressive
  • Personality Styles and Disorders
  • Reactions
  • Religious Choices
  • Role of Denial in the Coupledom
  • Separation
  • Sex and Intimacy
  • Sexual Assault
  • Sexual Orientation
  • Shared Life
  • Sibling Order
  • Similar Vision
  • Special Needs
  • Special Needs Parents
  • The Coupledom
  • The Senior Coupledom
  • The Singledom
  • Third Option
  • Tiger's Tale
  • Tools
  • Triangle Traps
  • Truth as a Trust Builder
  • Truth Takes Courage
  • Uncategorized
  • Viable Relationship

Recent Posts

  • The Pandemic Coupledom 2021: Reinventing the Meaning of Us
  • Pandemic Wisdom For The Coupledom: The Chance To Be Swaddled Again
  • Coupledom Crossroads: Empty Nesting in the Age of Netflix
  • The Hot Potato of Blame Game
  • Humor in Couples Therapy

Most Popular Blogs

The Passive-Aggressive Punch: The Silent Code of Anger In The Coupledom

Bully Wives? Yes, But They Don’t Know It.

Can You Say No To A Narcissist? Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

Follow Me

This Crazy Quilt: Parenting Adult Special Needs One Day At A Time


Follow @couplestoolkit

Subscribe to The Couples Toolkit Newsletter
  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

Related Posts
The Pandemic Coupledom 2021: Reinventing the Meaning of Us

The Pandemic Coupledom 2021: Reinventing the Meaning of Us

Pandemic Wisdom For The Coupledom: The Chance To Be Swaddled Again

Pandemic Wisdom For The Coupledom: The Chance To Be Swaddled Again

Coupledom Crossroads: Empty Nesting in the Age of Netflix

Coupledom Crossroads: Empty Nesting in the Age of Netflix

Read More Posts
The Couples Toolkit
Icon
Contact Info
Call: (203) 984-1517
Email: jill@thecouplestoolkit.com

Icon
Office Address
9 Shady Lane,
Redding, CT 06896
Icon
Office Hours
Flexible – In person, Phone, Zoom or FaceTime Sessions.

Facebook Twitter

The Couple's Toolkit © Website Design & Development by SHJ and Omaginarium