“The equality of any partnership ‘is measured over the scope of the marriage. It’s not just four years or eight years or two.'”

Michelle Obama knows that every relationship is a work in progress. The New York Times Magazine article, “The Obamas’  Marriage” by Jodi Kantor 11/01/09, touches on some of the cornerstones of the healthy coupledom. Themes of constant negotiation, communication,  and humor are woven throughout this description of the Obamas’ many years together.

Take a look.  They talk, they sacrifice, they re tune and re tool, they touch and they take turns setting the tone and direction of their shared lives.